meanwhile, at this quietly excellent restaurant:

There are a couple of lesbians in their sixties or seventies eating dinner with their grandson.  One is explaining to him that they are waiting to get married until gay marriage becomes legal according to the federal government. 

She is describing her staunch resolve to hold out for nationwide marriage equality despite being able to legally marry in her state of residence.  Her grandson wants to know if he can be the ringbearer in the wedding.